A lot of times when a woman leaves a long term relationship the man’s very first thoughts are “she found someone else “how could she do this“ all these years together“ and so much more, BUT what men don’t think about is all the times she went to sleep feeling like shit because she caught him talking to other women.Or all the times that he would disrespect her and call her out by her name. Or How he kept saying he would change but never did…Men don’t think about all the times she was there when no one else was. How she prayed to God to help him change. Men don’t think about how she always put everyone and everything before herself. Men don’t think about how all her friends and family told her to walk away but still she stayed.
No…all men can think is “how could she do this” …women don’t just wake up one day and decide to leave. A man’s actions, his words, the way he makes her feel builds up over time and eventually all his crap becomes this weight that she just can’t carry anymore. When she stops venting to you, when she stops getting on you, when she stops trying to get you to see things her way just know it’s not because you won and finally she’ll put up with everything, it’s because she’s preparing her escape from your toxic ways.
So no she didn’t leave you to find someone else . She left so she can find HERSELF. 
Appreciate your woman while you have her fellas.
Long Term Fun Relationship Questions to reconnect and revitalize your LOVE-4-1-Another.
- If you could do it all over again, what would you change? What would you make sure didn’t change?
- What’s your favorite memory of us together?
- Is there anything you want me to apologize for?
